Choose Right or Wrong?

Well for a while i've wondered what ever can make you happy in life, normally finds a way to let you down, or destory tiny bits of yourself that you once loved or thought you loved. How can you ever tell that something in your life can be the most wonderful thing, with days, weeks, months or many years can turn your life around in one click. 

Well we never really know what will happen in our life, either we choose to love someone, or find a job worth taking all the hassel to get, but to finally think this isn't for me. I've seen many rainbows in my life, but never actually found the pot of gold, you know? that one thing that can make you truely happy, no matter how rubbish your life may seem. Is there even such a thing? Something that can make you happy without a doubt in your mind that one day it could let you down? 

I don't think there is, many people have been truely happy for plently of years, how do you think your old grand parents are still together? I always wonder what was so special for them, to have spent many happy years together, with a couple rocks thrown way out to sea but always to be washed back in for you to eventually forget why it was thrown out? 

I guess we'll never know the true secrets of being happy, but we make ourself fools and do many silly things untill we settle down. But the real question is, how will we know when something that feels so right, can actually be the most stupidest thing you will do in your life? I guess this means, having a rope and a chair near by will one day be the death of you! Not to sound to extreme, but it's true, i think everyone has their moment's of wanting to escape everything and just be alone. 

But maybe because you're not letting any one in to help? maybe you've had so much help that nothing could be solved, but then again, everything can be solved if you choose right and don't let the wrong things choose you.